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Acknowledgment: Focusing on the value each person brings, regularly and sincerely pointing out what they do well (strengths/skills/attributes), and how it impacts you or the team. The employee trusts you.
Developmental: Such as teaching/coaching/mentoring. Focusing on the development and growth of the employee. The employee is growing.
Evaluative: Focusing on the job performance and key metrics. The employee always knows how their performance is perceived.

An acknowledgement is the recognition and expression of the existence or truth of someone or something. You are acknowledging WHO they are.
Generally, you are endorsing a person’s ability, skill, or capacity. It is a vulnerable, intimate, and powerful act. This is why it creates trust.
Tips for acknowledgement:
When you acknowledge people, they want to be their best, and to become their best. They become engaged in what is best within themselves, versus what they secretly think is wrong with them.

Developmental feedback is all about supporting the growth and development of your employees.
As a leader, if people are not growing under your leadership, something is amiss.
What do they need to learn to do the job well, or what do they want to learn to achieve their goals? Ask yourself if you understand their career goals and their career vision. When was the last time you asked? It does change.
Your talented, high performing employees need this the most. They are learners, they have big aspirations, they have capacity!
Development feedback at its heart is centered around honest, open dialogue.
Your feedback can make a real and lasting difference to people, even if it is hard for them to hear at that moment.
The main purpose of evaluative feedback is to help people understand where they stand in relation to their role, their performance expected, and/or productive job behavior.
Annual reviews are fine, but nothing in that review should be a surprise. Once an employee is established, quarterly reviews with Job Description in hand work well.
Do not try and give performance feedback while also developmental. Developmental conversations should happen separately.
Side with the person, not the issue, in every type of feedback. People are so much more than their behaviors, personality, and level of skill.
Take a moment to reflect. What learning can you embrace? What will you practice, and how? What are you committed to moving forward?
Alicia Marie is the Founder and Managing Director of People Biz Inc, a leadership and development firm established in 2000. She works with founders, business owners, and senior leaders to strengthen leadership capability and build organizations that grow sustainably through their people. Her work integrates strategy, human behavior, and dialogue-based training and coaching.